Colors of Life

Its been a long time i thought of writing something here again...After a break, though it was
just my first blog, I had thought that I'll start writing blogs...Never mind..Here I am writing
the second one..

Well today want to write something about life..About how everyone's life is, what sorts of expectations
a person has from his life, the disappointments associated with it, so on and so forth..
When a person is born, right from that time, a person starts setting up expectations..Seriously
there is nothing wrong in doing so..But when those are not met, thats where a person steps back, feels
disappointed and looses his heart..He keeps trying to fulfil what he has desired but when its not
seen in his hands, he stops expectating about other things..

This is one way life teaches every individual a lesson.."The more expectations are, more are the
disappointments"..Well so true..

You got to know the importance of the person when he/she is not there around you and when you have lost them.
But still just for showing practicality, ofcourse, you get that thought that life will still go on
but exactly thats where is the mistake..Life has to be taken forward from there but the beauty lies
only with the presence of that person..You gain everything in life but that particular person is
not standing next to you, the person who used to help you out, the person who used to understand
your problems without even being reacting to it, the person who has always tried to walk besides you,
the person who had valued you for everything in their life, the person who has not cared a damn
for sacrificing anything for you, the person who has never thought of their own selves,anything and
everything..I would say, you should try giving a thought on this...Only some petty squables,
misunderstandings, nothing has ended in this life, will never it be end too..

But yeah, the person has to value in the similar way, you value him/her..Your importance should be
felt by him/her..if not then how will she/he realise that you are equally important..Making your presence
is very important as per me..People should equally care,nurture you the way you do to them...
But it too depends on how much you want to compromise, how much time you want to give to them,how
much trials you give them to make them understand,how many times you share their thoughts/feelings,
how many times you have given importance that they deserve..I would say here, its all two way..
Nothing happens single handedly..Who all are in involved should get the realisation that someone is
there who cares about me, gives me equal importance, try to hide my mistakes in public and never feels
shy to hold my hand..

But life teaches all this in its own way..In the beginning, it makes us engrossed so much that you
feel at the top of the world and then you are thrown down as if you didn't owe anything in their
life..It becomes so hard to believe and keep mentoring your mind, soul that now that support is no
more, there is no one to back you when you look behind..Its a very hard moment but cannot help it.
Everyone undergoes this kind of challenges but there are only few lucky people who are born with
silver spoon..

At the beginning stage, you feel that you have gained all the happiness in this life and you feel
so satisfied within yourself..You feel you have been loved/cared/pampered..but those days does
not last long..It just vanishes off with a blink of eye and then comes the darker phase of it..
Believe me, it lasts so long that you feel why are these days not passing soon..You try giving up
in life but you are tied up with so many responsibilities that stops you taking such steps..
But at the end of the day, we ask to ourselves that what wrong happened that I have to face these
days..Where was i wrong??My expectations were wrong??My behaviour was wrong??Or the person with whom
you are involved is wrong??Sometimes you feel you have given so much importance to one person ignoring
everything and for that person you were just an option..Hmmmm..bad but this is what is the truth..
I can say, keeping aside all ego, misunderstandings, a person should keep his/her cool and then
try to understand for what he/she is loosing what??is it worth it??What about the support, efforts,help you have
given so far..Was it so unimportant that it should go in vain??Someone should have really
done so many important things to you..

Hello All

Well this is my first blog.Don't know what to jot here.My mind is having mixed thoughts..Should I just start with good things/lessons/experiences of life or should I just start complaining about the things which I am not happy with..Also it should not look like dissertation to the readers...When i read blogs of other people, I was wondering its really difficult to write about things you come across or that you want to share with everyone..But when I created my own blogspot, I am feeling confident..Though it takes time to think and depict the same with words here, believe me its an interesting thing to do..Your horizon of thinking increases after you read interesting aspects/situation/thinking what others have faced.I feel nice when I read interesting blogs.hmm..much to explore and share..But will try to give time and be consistent at blogspot..

Now that swine flu is in the air, makes me feel scared and nervous..Head count are increasing day by day with no proper recommended remedy known.I hope, this situation pass by soon and world be out of such dangers..

I had kinda free time today in office..So got lil time to pour my thoughts here...More to come yet..